MIDDELBURG — Men in Middelburg are urged not to suffer in silence, says Linah Mnisi, founder of Lean On Me (LOM), a

local organisation that offers support programmes for men and boys.

Mnisi told the publication that LOM has observed a prevailing tendency for men to endure their struggles in silence.

“Particularly concerning experiences like domestic, verbal, and physical abuse. It's crucial to recognise that men, too, can be

victims of abuse within their families or at their workplaces. A significant impediment to men reporting such incidents is the

unfortunate reality of facing ridicule in society or when seeking assistance from police stations,” she said.

She said men in the community are encouraged to speak openly about the challenges they face.

She added that while government initiatives are prioritising the safety and advancement of women and girls, there appears to be

limited focus aimed at safeguarding boys and men from acts of violence perpetrated by women.

On Friday, 13 March 2026, LOM organised a walk from Mhluzi Mall to OR Tambo Park with the aim to raise community

awareness regarding the organisation and its services.

“This initiative proved successful, as community members engaged with us, allowing us to thoroughly explain our programs and

offerings,” said Mnisi.

Founded in 2018, LOM offers support programmes designed to address a variety of individual and community needs. These

initiatives include programmes addressing Gender-Based Violence (GBV) and HIV/AIDS, coupled with essential counselling

services. They also provide dedicated support for mental and physical well-being, alongside practical training in financial

management and anger management. Furthermore, their programmes foster positive male development through fatherhood

initiatives, mentorship opportunities and men's dialogue sessions.

The organisation has a team of spiritual counselors, medical doctors, motivational speakers, marriage counselors, financial

advisors and life coaches who offer assistance through support groups.

“To ensure the effectiveness of these programs, active participation from community members is very important. Recognising the

unique challenges faced by young boys, we have developed specific programs aimed at equipping them with the skills and

knowledge to navigate the transition into manhood responsibly,” she said.

“Our collaborative efforts extend to partnerships with organisations such as Men Can Do Better, Isibindi, Patcher, and Mental

Health, among others. The specific referral pathway is tailored to the unique challenges presented by each client. Through these

close working relationships, we can effectively connect individuals with the most appropriate external resources when

necessary.”

Mnisi concluded that they welcome all forms of support, whether financial or non-financial, including the invaluable contribution

of advice.

For individuals or groups interested in offering support, they can reach out to Linah Mnisi at 072 635 5199 or Sipho Elangeni at

074 419 0598.